I can’t say it enough: the ultimate key to success with women and dating isn’t what you look like or how much money you make. It’s what’s that’s going on inside you right now… also known as your “inner game.”
Specifically, it’s knowing what you want, believing it’s possible to get it, and having the confidence to take action and make it happen.
If you’re feeling like your inner game isn’t where it needs to be right now to start getting life-changing results with women and dating, the first thing you need to do is stop worrying and blaming yourself.
Like anything else, improving your inner game is simply a process of learning and experience.
The second thing you can do is take a few simple steps to strengthen your inner game and get on the track to achieving the success with women you’ve always dreamed about.
Here are a 3 easy steps you can take to start turbocharging your inner game right away…
Adjust Your Mindset
No doubt about it, most guys work themselves into a cold sweat just thinking about approaching, meeting, and getting dates with great women.
That’s why the first step toward boosting your inner game is adjusting that negative mindset in a way that helps you get past the fear.
Here’s a quick trick for doing it…
First, visualize walking up to a beautiful woman you don’t know and starting a conversation with her.
Your heart rate probably skyrocketed just imaging it, right?
Now, quickly change gears – think about an awesome time in your life when you felt genuinely confident, happy and excited about the experience you were having. Remember how you felt like you were truly comfortable in your own skin… being yourself… feeling powerful and energetic.
Really focus. Put yourself in that place.
Now, do something subtle and physical with your body. Maybe tap your thigh or open your fist. Then repeat the exercise. Think about that great time you felt confident and assured. Then tap your thigh again.
As you repeat this process of remembering a time when you had a confident mindset and connecting it to a physical gesture, you’ll condition yourself to call up those awesome, positive feelings on command.
In the future, all you’ll have to do in the future is repeat that gesture to instantly invoke those feelings. It’s like having a magic ‘push’ button for feeling good about yourself.
It takes practice, but once you have it mastered, you’ll be able to nudge your mindset in the right direction right when when you need it most with women, in the workplace… whenever you need it!
Master Your Body-Language Cues
Everything about boosting your inner game is about making small changes in yourself that create big results in your interactions with women.
Come across as the kind of man who instinctively knows how to communicate with a woman – the kind who can show her that he gets her like 99% of other guys can’t – and you’ll see astonishing changes in your results (and therefore your confidence) as well.
You can start right now by tweaking a few things about your body language that subtly communicate strength, empathy and compassion to a woman… versus the usual nervousness and confusion that she expects from guys.
It can be as simple as learning to maintain strong eye contact and a calm expression as you talk to her. Or using a steady tone of voice that radiates peace and inner strength instead of insecurity.
Most of all, you must calmly and confidently communicate to her that you’re totally comfortable interacting with her, that you can hear her and understand how she’s feeling, and that you can deal with her emotions.
Do that much, and she’ll open herself up to you because she instinctively senses that you’re a man who has his inner game – and therefore his life – together.
She’ll know you bring something to the table that most other guys don’t. She’ll sense she’s finally in the vicinity of a rock-solid man instead of yet another “emotional kindergartner”.
So work on those small body-language cues with everyone you meet.
You’ll begin to see huge changes in how people respond to you… and that alone will work miracles when it comes to strengthening your inner game.
Get A Reality Check
Is there really any logical reason you should fear trying (and yes, possibly failing) with approaching, meeting, and dating?
The answer is no.
Nothing bad will happen to you.
In fact, even if you do happen to crash and burn while asking a woman out or dating her, chances are she will go out of her way not to hurt you.
So why does it seem to terrifying for some guys to even try?
If you’re like most men, it’s because you’re imagining outcomes that are a lot worse than any possible reality.
These imaginings have slowly become an ingrained part of your subconsciousness.
However, once you decide to start replacing those false associations with actual experience, you will begin applying “real world” data and change your mindset. You will shake off the anchor to failure that is your current negative outlook. You will give yourself permission to pursue success.
So take the first step today – decide to get out there and really try this stuff. Get a feel for reality, and your inner game will begin to shift to catch up with it.
Bottom line: take these simple steps as a part of your “to-do” list today, you’ll begin strengthening your inner game in ways that get you results with women and dating like you never dreamed possible.
Now it’s up to you… stop with the dreaming and take some action.
I know you can make this happen because I did it myself. I’ve seen thousands of other guys do it.
So get started right now! Click here to MASTER your Deep Inner Game.