Approaching Women And Starting Conversations The Easy Way
Approaching women and starting conversations for many men can be one of the most uncomfortable and nerve-wracking things they can do.>
This fear cripples men across the globe – its NOT just you. Because of it, men can come across as creepy and weird, especially if you are practicing memorized pick up lines or acting like someone other than who you are in order to impress a girl or get her attention.
Women have radars for that kind of thing – and while they may not always be able to define it, the feeling of “falseness” will turn her off and get you rejected.
The simplest way to begin approaching women and starting conversation is to actually …
START A CONVERSATION!
I know, you are looking at me right now like I just revealed the incredible secret that the sky is blue. Bear with me a moment.
This is something I figured out a long time ago when I was trying to meet women after just moving to Los Angeles.
Quality women have intuition, a sense of right and wrong that may be either highly developed, or just a “feeling”, but either way, if a woman feels you are being false to her, she’s going to reject you. Unfortunately, when most guys walk up to a woman with a few pickup lines memorized or a set idea of how the conversation or interaction is going to go, they appear to be false in some way or another.
Instead, just TALK to her. Actually have a conversation.
The best way I have found to approach women and start a conversation (and this works with a single woman or a group of women) is to ask her opinion on something.
This works ANYWHERE. A line at the grocery store, a coffee shop, bars, clubs, or even the park.
Conversations – an actual conversation, is not going to feel like a pickup line to most women.
But what do you SAY to her?
Simple. Ask her opinion on something.
Get yourself into the mindset of “Hey, I want to get your opinion on something. What do you think of this?”
What’s a woman’s perspective on this? What do women think of this?
Its very inviting and engaging for her and can turn into a fun and lively conversation.
Then, if you really want to ice the cake, you can ask the standard “Do you think men understand what women want and need?”
At that point, you can get the video camera out and start shooting your own documentary on human relationships.
You don’t have to have pickup lines memorized. You don’t have to be tall, rich, handsome or famous to find a woman who is interested in you. But you do need to be able to meet women in ways that show you are engaged and into her, without fixating on “making a move” or “scoring”.
Have fun, be yourself, and open up to approaching women and starting conversations without the stress of fearing rejection or humiliation. Asking an opinion is a fool proof way to do that, and if she is not in to the conversation, simply move on to the next opportunity.
If you want to check out more on approaching women and starting conversations, check out my Approaching Women In this program, I boil down the top mistakes that men make when it comes to approaching women… and then teach you step by step how to overcome all of these mistakes to create massive success for yourself with women.