Learn How To Deal With Competition From Guys, Build Confidence and Get More Dates, FAST
By David DeAngelo
*** This Week’s Question
I am recently divorced and found myself having a hard time making connections with women after being in a nine-year relationship. Before I met my ex-wife I considered myself as a “player” and had little trouble finding girls to go out with.
After being out of the scene for so long, I had lots of trouble trying to get back in to the swing of things. Your ebook and emails have instantly put me back in the game and I am now getting dates with very attractive women! It’s been amazing!! Thank You!
Now for the question.
All these attractive women have brought something into my dates that I am not used to, Men (Cock Blockers)! Currently, I am dating this “bomb-shell” occasionally and when we go out on a date, men will hit on her as soon as they get a chance. If I turn my back for second, some guy will try to make eye contact or say something to her. I don’t blame the guys because she is very hot, but how do I deal with this in a way that shows I am 100% confident? How do I deal with competition from other guys?
B from Colorado
*** My Comments
Well then… welcome back!
I’ve noticed that the period after breaking up with a long-term girlfriend or spouse is often a difficult one.
I think it’s easy for men (and women) to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship…
“What’s going to happen?”
“Will I ever meet another woman?”
“How do I get started?”
I can remember breaking up with long-term girlfriends in years past, and feeling an empty, fearful, LONELY combination of emotions in my gut that was HORRIBLE.
When you are insecure, you’re always wondering if some other guy is going to come along and steal your girl. You’re always thinking about competition from other guys.
That ALONE is enough to cause a lot of problems.
Add to that not knowing where to start, what to do, or how to “get your game back” if you had it in the past and you usually get a bad situation.
I’ve learned that knowing how to go out anytime and meet women has a couple of MAJOR benefits when it comes to this area.
Now let’s talk about what to do about competition from other guys…
First I want to talk about what I believe is at the ROOT of the problem:
When you are insecure, you’re always wondering if some other guy is going to come along and steal your girl.
This often shows up as a combination of feelings that make you worry about losing your girl, and at the same time worrying about not being able to find another one if you DO lose this one.
Then, as if things weren’t bad enough, you go out with your girl, and other guys start hitting on her right in front of you.
This triggers MORE insecurity, and then the REAL problem… JEALOUSY.
One of the best things you can do in these situations is to learn how to have FUN with it. Most guys have no game at all… and it’s kind of funny to watch and listen to them. I enjoy watching guys try to meet women, because they FAIL miserably in most cases. I like to wait until a guy is finished trying to pick up on the girl I’m with, and then get her to share the details so I can laugh.
The point I’m making is that you MUST get over that fear/insecurity/jealousy issue, and realize that there is nothing to be afraid of. So what if you have competition from other guys?
If you want to learn how to meet and attract women so “I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling I have”, then YOU’RE RIGHT!
Unfortunately, most guys never take the time and invest in themselves… and they wind up going their whole lives WISHING that they could attract the kinds of women that they want.
Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn’t know what he was doing with women. Now I’m one of the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation and attract women.
What’s the difference?
I TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN.
It’s taken me a long time to figure all this stuff out, and it’s also taken a lot of time, effort, and energy on my part to put it all down on paper… so that any guy can learn from the things I’ve discovered.
I’d like to personally invite you to check out my materials. In a matter of hours you can learn things that took me YEARS to figure out… all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.
My eBook “Double Your Dating” is the FOUNDATION for everything I teach… It’s a “must read”, and you can download it online and be reading it in about 5 minutes…
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