When it comes to approaching women, wouldn’t you like to know how to get her info in less than 30 seconds?
Let me tell you how.
I don’t know why this pick up line works so well, probably because reciprocity is built in.
“Hey, let’s trade information and I’ll catch up with you later.”
“Trading information” is very non-threatening.
It implies “I’m going somewhere”. I don’t have time to hang out and bother you, but in a quick and painless transaction, we can have each other’s contact information.
For example, you may walk up to the bar and as you’re talking to the bartender for a second, you notice she’s funny and you’ve got a little vibe going. Here is a perfect time to say to her, “You know what? Let’s trade information and I’ll catch up with you later”.
It’s hard to say no to that one. “Let’s trade information”… it sounds so damn fair doesn’t it? And it also kind of sounds like you’re doing her a favor.
Another great pickup line you can use on a woman when you meet her is this:
Ask a woman if she has a phone on her.
Simply say, “Do you have a phone on you?” If she says yes, you say “give it to me”.
This is a great one – and what do you do when you get it? You take it and you call your phone. Then your phone rings and you pull it out and you go “Okay cool” and you hand it back to her and you say thank you …and it’s funny, stupid, charming and it’s disarming … It works incredibly well too.
If you really want to make an impression on a woman as you’re doing all these fun things and using these techniques – underneath it, you’re constantly communicating that you are a mature, secure man and what mature secure men do is they take charge of and they protect the situation.
A mature man – an alpha male – is the protector of the situation, he is the guardian of the “thing”, the group, or the flock. A woman should always feel safe, secure and protected around a mature alpha male.
And when I say that the man is the “protector”, I don’t mean that they’re the person that buys everything for everyone or does everything for everyone, but they’re just keeping an eye out to make sure everything is ok.
Be chivalrous. Take your jacket off because she’s cold – the reaction you get might be that she does her “tough feminist” thing, and she might say “No, no, no, it’s okay. You keep your jacket”. You take it and you put it around her and you gently insist that she “Put it on”.
There’s a subtle dynamic that is happening in a situation like that, because you are taking control of the situation, and in most cases she will say okay and give you token resistance.
But, the connection that is created there is that you were saying “Hi, I’m a mature man. I’m going to do this and you’re going to be warm because I’m fine. I’m OK, and you’re a woman, things are good and I’m a gentleman.”
This BUILDS attraction for a woman. It allows her to feel safe and secure in your presence. And she cannot help but start to feel that feeling of attraction inside that fires up when she meets a true alpha male.
When it is communicated to her that you’re a gentleman – even if you are only in an interaction that lasts less than a minute (like with the “Give me your phone” line) – she will be much more likely to respond positively to you because she can feel the alpha character you project. And attraction builds for her from the moment you make contact.
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