If you’re like me, you’ve read a hundred books and articles about how to tell if a woman is interested in you. And they all say things like:
“Look as she tilts her head to one side and strokes her neck, those are signs she’s interested… ”
“When she licks her lips in a longing fashion, that’s how you can tell a woman is interested in you… ”
“If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact, and touches you often, then she likes you… ”
Wow. I remember when I first read all this stuff. I thought to myself “Cool! I must have been missing these hints because I didn’t know to look for them. Now I’ll know when a woman is interested in me… ”
If she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me playfully, she’s ENGAGED ME BACK. Those are signs she’s interested, and IT’S GAME ON.
However, there was just ONE SMALL problem…
Women display these MAJOR signals in about 1% of their interactions with men.
So I’m going to give YOU the formula you need to tell if she’s interested in you.
Here it is:
When you engage her… she engages you BACK.
Yes, that’s is how to tell if a woman is interested in you.
I know that this sounds a little “Duh-ish”, but stay with me here.
Say I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks me how many are in my party. I engage her with: “Well, there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR if YOU join us… ”
If she smiles and laughs at my joke, she’s ENGAGED ME BACK. Those are signs a woman is interested in you, and I know IT’S GAME ON.
Say I’m standing at the bar, and the woman next to me bumps into my arm. I engage her by turning and saying, “Hey, watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least a foot of room… ” in a serious tone of voice.
If she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me playfully, she’s ENGAGED ME BACK.
Those are signs a woman is interested in you, and IT’S GAME ON.
Say I’m talking to a woman that I met at the magazine rack, and I ask her, “What’s with that huge purse of yours? You got a dog in there or something?”
Then, if she starts laughing and making excuses, (see a pattern developing here?) those are signs she’s interested, and IT’S GAME ON.
In a nutshell, what I’m trying to say is:
Don’t look for random “by the book” signs she’s interested in you.
Stop CARING whether or not any one particular woman is interested in you.
Start TRIGGERING interest in women, and watch to see if they ENGAGE YOU BACK. If they do, assume that IT’S ON.
Of course, once you know how to tell if she’s interested in you, that’s when the whole game changes. That’s the point you need to understand what it takes to harness that initial, small spark of ATTRACTION, amp it up, and keep things going.
And that’s a whole other story.
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