Tips for Meeting Women Online – Time Wasters To Avoid
Meeting women online is one of the best ways to open yourself up to a new relationship. Online dating offers so many more choices than traditional dating. It can take you completely out of the bar scene or allow you to meet women in locations you would normally not frequent.
It can offer you choices of more kinds of women, and choosing new girls to talk to who have values like your own, who you know are single and open to meeting new people.
Really, it seems like a win-win situation for everyone.
However, there is a flip side to the wonders of meeting women online – and that is the trap of time wasters.
Here are some potential time wasters and bad situations you need to keep an eye out for when you are looking to meet girls in the virtual world.
Tips for Meeting Women Online – The Long Distance Romance Trap
Meeting women that live too far away.
Have you ever done that? You meet a great woman; she seems like the perfect match for you in the virtual world. However, she lives across the country from you and its going to cost you a thousand dollar plane ticket for your first coffee date.
The potential is there in situations like this to really screw up your life. Online relationships are a great way to START. However, as I point out in my Meeting Women Online program, you need to take the fledgling relationship offline as soon as possible in order to get a feel for who this girl really is.
Have you ever done that? Actually screwed your life up by wasting time, months, even years, in a long distance relationship? Then suddenly you figure out that you are not compatible in the real world? I know at least one person who has done that – they screwed up not only their life but the lives of others over a relationship that was not going anywhere.
Tips for Meeting Women Online – Becoming Addicted
Don’t become ADDICTED to chatting with women or meeting women online.
Becoming addicted to chatting with women and with meeting women online can suddenly take over your entire life if you are not careful. Another facet of this is meeting someone and getting too attached.
You ever meet someone in the real world and you just get so addicted to them that you let your life get screwed up?
The feeling of intensity when getting to know someone can turn your life around. One minute, you have your life in order, you have your habits set and your ducks in a row.
The next thing you know, you meet a girl online and **BLAM** – your staying up till all hours of the night talking to her. Your body suffers from not getting enough rest. Your health suffers, your work can suffer if you start talking to her on the job and forgetting your obligations and responsibilities.
Meeting women online, as a general world, can actually become addictive. Maybe you haven’t had a lot of success with women and dating in the real world. Or possibly you are at a point in your life when you can’t really get yourself out there, like you don’t have enough time, or work is crazy.
Sometimes in these situations, just getting online and getting attention from women can become addictive and distracting. Don’t let that happen to you.
If you haven’t had a lot of success with meeting women in the world, maybe you’re too busy and you can’t get out there… just getting online and just getting attention from women it can be distracting from reality. Don’t let that happen.
Tips for Meeting Women Online – Innacurate Pictures and Descriptions
Another time waster is inaccurate descriptions and inaccurate pictures.
Research shows that we lie when we get online. If you use social media tools like Facebook, you know how easy it is to “craft a life in posts” that shows the best of what you are. But that leaves the rest in the closet with the rest of the dirty laundry.
Have you ever met a woman started talking to her and felt like you got to know her? You’ve seen her pictures, you believe she is the real deal, and then you meet her in person and she looks nothing like her pictures?
I’ve got some good memories of that. **Shivers**
The problem is that with today’s technology, pictures can easily be manipulated to make a “photoshopped version” of yourself that, while being 100% you, is manipulated in a way that hides what you want to hide and shows only what you want to accentuate.
We ALL do it. You hold the camera up high to minimize your double chin. Or take those photos from the chest up to hide that 12 pack you are sporting. You only take seated pictures to hide your height.
EVERYONE does it.
Tips for Meeting Women Online – The Crazies
Some percentage of the world is crazy. Its just a fact. And there are probably about as many crazy men as there are crazy women. But in this case we’re concerned with the crazy women.
I have met a lot of women online I have dated a lot of women online. I’ve practiced a LOT, ok?
I’ve met a little handful of doozies. I mean real crazy.
We’re talking like after getting to know a woman online for a while and thinking that she’s pretty normal then she turns into a Satan worshiper who likes the idea of torture and other weird stuff.
Then you’re like, well, gonna burn THAT contact!
I met one girl who sent me a bunch of pictures told me her whole deal … told me where she lived … we talked on the phone a bunch of times and everything.
The whole thing seemed very legit. We set up a time to get together she didn’t show up.
Then afterwards it turned into this bizarre drama. It’s so weird and kind of hard to believe that I almost don’t even want to talk about it.
She turned into a character from a horror movie. That’s the best way I can describe it.
Most of the safety information for online dating is geared toward women, but men need to be safety conscious too.
If you create something that works really well and you send it out to a bunch of women online, chances are not every one of them is going to be the stable, got it together girl that you are looking for.
There might be a crazy or two in there.
Just keep that in mind and be safe.