Top 5 Ways To Approach Women by Dating Expert – David DeAngelo
What’s the biggest reason that most guys don’t succeed with women the way they want and dream about?
It’s because they don’t even try!
In fact, tell me if this sounds familiar…
When it comes to walking up to a woman and talking to her, most guys start to sweat at the mere thought. They worry about getting tongue-tied and embarrassing themselves. They fear rejection.
Fair enough. If approaching women isn’t something that you’re comfortable with, it can feel like an impossible challenge.
If so, I want you to know that you’re not alone. Most guys have big problems getting past the idea of approaching women they don’t know and starting a conversation.
Truth is, it was a killer road-block that I had to get over, too!
But, after years of learning from the naturals… guys who were effortlessly successful with women… I discovered that certain approaches worked like magic. They made walking up to a woman and starting conversations feel so effortless and “risk free” that I started getting results that blew my mind.
And, hey, if I could learn how to do it, I know for a fact that YOU can, too.
That in mind, here are my top five all-time favorite ways to get big results approaching women:
Ask For Her Opinion
A great way to get comfortable with approaching women is walking up to one and asking for her “unique, female perspective” on something.
Smile and look genuinely interested and say, “Hey, let me ask you a question. My friend and I were talking about something, and I think we need a female perspective…” Or “Can you give me your opinion on this?”
Follow up with something deeper than the usual “gossip.” Ask her, “Do you think that men understand what women really want and need?”
This approach immediately grabs a woman’s attention by making you stand out as the kind of guy who really cares about her thoughts and opinions (versus every other guy she meets who just wants her number and a date).
Bonus points: after she tells you want she thinks, use Cocky & Funny to playfully disagree with her. It keeps things fun (something that EVERY woman is looking for.)
Most importantly, it keeps the conversation going.
Just Say Hi
I’ve tried probably 100 different types of lines and techniques for meeting women, and I’ve found that the simple ones usually work the best.
That’s why, if you want to use the most powerful pick-up line ever, walk up to a woman, and then, with a knowing, confident smile, just say “Hi.”
After she says “Hi” back, follow-up with “I knew it. You’re friendly.”
She’ll ask how you know… and that’s your opening. Once again, break out the Cocky & Funny. Tell her about all of all of the other women you’ve been meeting recently who only care about hitting on you. Tell her, “You seemed real and open and interesting from across the room.”
Why does this work?
It’s because, whenever you approach a woman, she already knows what you’re doing. So use this fact to your advantage.
SHOW her that YOU know that she knows what you’re doing.
It’s a simple shorthand that instantly communicates that you have confidence… also known as the ultimate secret weapon any time you approach a woman.
Let’s Be Friends
One of my favorite approaches is to walk up to a woman and say, “Hey, you seem like a really nice person. I could use more friends like you. Give me your number and I’ll call you next week and maybe we can hang out… as FRIENDS.”
This instantly separates you from every other guy who gets all nervous and immediately tells her she’s so amazingly beautiful and asks her out.
Best of all, it shows you’re not that into her (yet) which is the ultimate attention-grabber with any woman… she can’t believe you’re not willing to drop everything just to win her approval and get a date..
Ask For Her Help
Another one of my favorites sounds deceptively simple, but it’s actually a powerhouse because it taps into a woman’s natural instincts to be caring and supportive.
All you have to do is walk up to a woman. Again, make sure to sound confident and secure, speaking slowly and smiling, and ask her for her help with something.
A great way to do is to ask for directions (More bonus points… tell her that you’re going to meet up with some women friends there. Women open up and feel safe around a guy who has lots of gal pals.)
Even better, ask for her help picking out a gift for some “other woman” (Now she thinks you’re in-demand with women… priceless!)
Point is, women naturally love to be helpful and make recommendations on stuff like this. The conversation has begun and the door is open.
Bust On Other Guys
This may be my most favorite approach for two reasons:
1) It’s the easiest way to use “Cocky & Funny” to spark instant interest and attraction with a woman.
2) It creates an instant contrast between you and every other guy who gets all lame and Wussy when he approaches women.
Basically, whenever you notice a guy interacting with some other girl in the room, walk up to the woman that you want to meet. Give her a little smile and shake your head at the the other guy.
Say, “Wow, do you see that?”
She’ll ask “See what?” Then you say something like “Isn’t that sad?” or “That’s just pathetic.”
When she asks what you mean, tell her, “Watch that dude sweat, trying to hook up with that girl. I wonder if he can kiss her butt any harder? Think she’ll actually fall for it?”
She’ll probably act surprised because you’re getting so real with her. So use it! Tell her: “When a guy does something like that, you can tell that he’s probably a really nice guy with good intentions. But then he goes and blows it like that. He doesn’t get it. He has no idea what’s REALLY attractive to a woman.”
You’ll then have her FULL attention because you’ve practically read her mind!
Now it’s up to you to keep it going…
Keep practicing, anywhere and everywhere, until approaching women becomes no big deal for you. You’ll be surprised how quickly your fear disappears once you’ve done it a few times.
Of course, you also need to learn what to do NEXT after you’ve successfully approached an amazing woman…
The best place to learn how to do it?
My world-famous Double Your Dating eBook, of course.
It’s jam-packed with 148 pages of simple, step-by-step instructions that take you from feeling insecure and nervous with women… to meeting and getting dates with more women than you can handle… to getting physical with them and beyond.
Fact is, my eBook has changed the lives of literally hundreds of thousands of men around the world.
Isn’t it time that YOU became one of them?